Potty Train in 3 days: Is It Possible?

I'm sure you have come across potty training methods that promise to potty train your child in 3 days. But you wonder if such methods are just gimmicks. Same here! When I started potty training my daughter, she was such a hard case. I started looking into all of these methods, programs, and books. I was so desperate and wanted a quick fix. "Only 3 days!" I thought... that's awesome! 

But which program or book do I choose? There are so many out there that promise different things. They all differ in how they approach potty training. My daughter was so scared of the potty, and stubborn at the same time. So I had to find a program that was going to consider her temperament and fears. So I decided to do what any good blogger would do. I decided to review some of these popular programs. For myself, and my readers...you're welcome!

First let's answer the question, "Can I potty train my child in 3 days?"

Well that depends on how you define potty train. If you mean that your child will be completely accident free after 3 days, then the answer is NO. And any program that promises you that, you should definitely stay away from. Your child will have accidents and that is completely normal. 

If you think that your child will be diaper free at nighttime after only 3 days, then the answer is also a resounding NO!  Being able to hold urine in during the night is a developmental thing. Your child's bladder has to signal the brain and wake her up. That is something that happens with age. This is not something you can train or control. Sure a few lucky parents will take away diapers during the day, and their child will stay dry at night too. But those are a lucky few, and usually the ones that start potty training late, meaning the child has already achieved that physiological development. 

Now if you define potty training as your child being able to control pee or poop and let it go in potty or toilet. You expect a few accidents here and there, and you don't think night-time control is a prerequisite. Then YES, it is possible to potty train in 3 days. 

Now let's talk about the different methods and programs out there.


Keep in mind that they all have pretty much the same concept. Which is that you get rid of diapers, devote yourself to at least 3 days of stay at home potty training, and not use pull-ups to sabotage the process. So I will discuss the main differences between them.

3 day Potty Training by, Lora Jensen. A program that quickly gained popularity (I'm guesing it has something to do with title). The gist of this program is that you take away all diapers, put on underwear, and don't ever revert back to diapers. You offer liquids and high fiber foods. And you praise and reward your child for using the potty. It's a pretty simple program, straight forward and easy to follow. There are a few things I didn't like. First Lora has you refer to accidents as "yucky" or "pew". Now my little girl had a very bad fear of "letting it go". (you can read about that HERE) Amongst all my research, I learned that kids with these fears usually view their "duty" as part of themselves and their body. In my opinion, the worst thing you can do is call "a part of your child's body", "yucky". That's a horrible idea, and will only make your child feel ashamed. The other thing that was a deal breaker was that Lora has you take away diapers, even at night-time. I agree taking them away during the day, but as I mentioned before night-time training is a developmental milestone, that matures with age. Lora says that if your child is at least 22 months old, they should be waking up dry and gives you a few different options of "nighttime training". I tried her method and it just didn't work. There is no way my 22 month old was going to stay dry at night. That is not something you can "train". She wet the bed over and over. When she woke up, the diaper had cold pee, and she had no idea she had done it. Meaning she did at some point during the night while she was asleep. Waking my daughter up from her sleep to take her potty just wasn't an option for us. And you can't really change things up either, Lora says you have to "follow the program to the T" for it to be successful.This program may work for others, but it didn't work for us.  

No-Sweat Potty Training, by Dana Obleman- This is another popular potty training program. And as most of the other programs, you ditch the diapers, offer tremendous praise and rewards for success. The main difference with this program is that your child is allowed to wear diapers at night. Dana considers daytime and nighttime training as two separate entities. Dana says "you should also understand (and let your child know) that he’ll still be using diapers at nighttime, and that nighttime diapers are OK — even for big kids! (The fact is that bladder control at night takes longer to master.)" This alone is a huge plus in my book. I need a program that's going to offer a realistic method and approach, not a quick gimmick. What I also like about Dana Obleman is that you can get lots of freebies right from her site. Useful information that may answer your questions, before you even decide to purchase the program. For example, right now you can get a free PDF where Dana talks about potty training myths, and gives you tips on how to potty train. Here it is.

Start Potty Training Program, by Carol Cline - The best part of this program is that it is created by a mother of 4 and daycare owner who has tons of experience with potty training toddlers. In this program, Carol teaches you an easy to follow method of potty training, with no pressure to nighttime train. What I love is that she covers a variety of topics. She talks about differences between training boys and girls. She has special sections in the program for special needs children (autism, down syndrome etc). There is a section especially for twins/multiples, and older children who may be more difficult to train. The best is the "bumps in the road" section, which every potty training parent will face during potty training. In this section she addresses fear of pooping, wetting the bed, tantrums, regression and so much more. She also teaches you how to handle outings to places like the mall, fairs, pools, and even airplane travels. I also love the fact that you can ask her questions when they come up during the training process (and trust me, your always going to have questions). Carol offers a "lifeline" where you can reach her directly, with any unique questions you may have. The personal consultations is what had me sold. 
 This program goes way beyond a quick 3 day potty training method, Carol Cline literally helps you through EVERYTHING. There isn't a topic that she doesn't cover. You are truly getting your money's worth. That is why I recommend this program above any other. Here are some features of the program.

So there you have it! A quick guide to the most popular potty training programs that promise to potty train your child in a few days. If there are any you would like me to review that I haven't mentioned please leave me a comment below, and I will try my best to get a copy for review. 



11 comments:

  1. Thanks for the information. A review of these 3 potty training systems is very beneficial.

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  2. Thank you so much for this. I am about to embark on this important event with my 28 month old twins and your article was very handy as I have just read the 3 day potty training with Lora Jensen and I too balked at calling bodily functions yucky.
    I am going to try out your suggestions though about the other two books and was also wondering if you would have time to review Gina Ford's potty training in one week, at all?

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    1. Your welcome, glad I could help! Let's see what I could do about getting a copy for review. If you do decide to try the other programs, any need any tips/help let me know. I would be glad to help, I know how stressful this all can be. My toddler was a doozy!

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  3. Thanks for these reviews! I have an almost 5 year old boy who has been very resistant to potty training. His 27 month old sister is now potty trained and that still hasn't helped much. I'm really considering Carol Cline's program but worry that it won't be age appropriate. What do you think?

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    1. Hi Micheline. I know there is definitely a section in the program for older children. There is also a section about older boys in particular, that are very resistant. I'm telling you, there isn't anything this program doesn't cover. That's why I really wanted to review it and tell everyone about it. Good luck! Let me know if there's any other way I could help.

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  4. Hi Violet,

    Thanks for the reviews...I just bought carole cline 's method but i also bumped into some sites where people say they have been scammed by her.
    Do you know anything about that?
    I bought also some bonusses from her site for quite some money and tried to send her a question but i never got any repsonse. Although the method seems honest i m now staring to be a bit confused...

    thanks in advance!

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    1. Hi Florianne, I know exactly which board you are talking about. I came across that when I was getting ready to write my review. It had me very confused because the Carol Cline program is a good program and I have never had any issues contacting anyone. The responses were prompt. Perhaps you didn't get a response because it's the holiday, so give it some time. I did write an a post regarding this "scam" thing because I have the program, it's great and I also recommend it. I have many loyal followers and readers so I had to make sure people were not getting scammed in some way. Here is my post regarding this issue http://totsandkids101.blogspot.com/2013/11/start-potty-training-by-carol-cline.html#.UrsPK3lhPwI

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  5. That Lora Jensen, I heard some complaints about her being rude, etc. but gladly I haven't tried purchasing her ebook. I use the 3-day potty training method from other sources and so far, my son is improving gradually from potty trainer to toilet seat.

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  7. Hello,

    Can't afford Carol Clines book but would like to use her method. Does anyone know a way around the payment?

    Thanks unemployed mom

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  8. hi i am carol
    After two utterly miserable weeks of my husband and I trying to train our son on our own to go to the bathroom ... I decided to find a method to help me teach my son go to the bathroom.
    My son was in the stages furthest from the regression, kicked and screamed when he would sit on his potty. Not to mention to go into hiding whenever he had to go.
    We use the methods of a book that you download from the internet and I was speechless after my husband and I attended our son sitting in her bathroom, all by itself! 4 days in your program and regression were corrected and we had our first day accident free.
    I just had to write and say thank you from the bottom of our hearts for all your help Thanks to the author of the book.

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